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[Josh]

Alright I'm 14 and I don't see how people on tv advertise kids making out all the time. I never see kids my age making out anywhere. I still haven't made out with someone yet and I still don't understand. And lol I need pointers xD
If this isnt in the right disscusion area Dont bash on me!
I still don't understand whats the best way to get a girl to actually kiss me. When is the right time to kiss a girl. I'm not sure on this topic. So I'm asking xD

Alright so basically I have never made out with a girl before. And since I'm 14 I feel like I want too so bad. Eh and I hear all my friends looking at porn and talking about it and krap gah that makes me want other things >.>
and there 14 whadda gonna do?eh?

So I don't understand anything. I dont understand if your suppose to use the tongue more. Lesbien kiss is ...Wow.... and well basically I don't know anything on this subject so help.

 

[Stavvy]

Lol. . .sorry but this is a little funny. . .to me. . .meh. . .


Anyway. . .it just will come naturally, you'll find someone and when the time's right you'll know. You can't rush things or else all hell will come crashing down around you. . .trust me that hurts. . .Someone else might have more useful help, but I say that you'll do fine.

As for your friends. . .well it's only natural that they would be. . .exploring. . .you most likely will too. . .just don't get addicted xD. . .

 

[kairigirl]

<--18 and never been kissed, in case you're wondering if you're strange or something like that. It's perfectly normal not to have been kissed by 14. I know people who weren't kissed till college; I actually know someone who's waiting for the altar (that is..wedding day! Isn't that cute!? Dunno if I could wait that long). So before you start thinking that you must kiss now or start doing stuff, you're only 14 and there's a good chance your hormones are not balanced yet. Let your head do the thinking.

As for actually making out and kissing...I always assumed it came naturally. Like, you'd know how to kiss when you kiss, just like you'll know how to have sex when you have sex. You can each teach other how to kiss, just like you and your future partner in marriage will teach other how you each like sex. But acts like these are just things you learn after you do them, we can't really teach you how to do it.

Just don't go out trying to get practice though. <-<

 

[Katattack]

You're trying to learn how to make a girl make out with you on a Kingdom Hearts forum?!

Look. Concentrate on trying to get a girl to like you. =/ You're too young, I'd think.

Once the girl likes you... then you can worry about that stuff. But if you try to force her, she'll get scared and dump you. xD

Don't go around with your tounge hanging out. =/

 

[Josh]

<--18 and never been kissed, in case you're wondering if you're strange or something like that. It's perfectly normal not to have been kissed by 14. I know people who weren't kissed till college; I actually know someone who's waiting for the altar (that is..wedding day! Isn't that cute!? Dunno if I could wait that long). So before you start thinking that you must kiss now or start doing stuff, you're only 14 and there's a good chance your hormones are not balanced yet. Let your head do the thinking.

As for actually making out and kissing...I always assumed it came naturally. Like, you'd know how to kiss when you kiss, just like you'll know how to have sex when you have sex. You can each teach other how to kiss, just like you and your future partner in marriage will teach other how you each like sex. But acts like these are just things you learn after you do them, we can't really teach you how to do it.

Just don't go out trying to get practice though. <-<

haha thats what i always thought. It seems like you would just naturally know what to do. I just want it more enjoyable.

 

[kairigirl]

haha thats what i always thought. It seems like you would just naturally know what to do. I just want it more enjoyable.

The way for it to be more enjoyable is not to rush it. When you're making out with someone you really love, then it's more meaningful. You're going to have more of that "Wow!" sensation both during and afterwards. I'm not necessarily saying wait till marriage before you start to make out, but just make sure that you have borders you won't go past if you do make out before marriage. Making out is way of showing love..not necessarily sex, but making out is usually passionate. Make sure you're with the right girl when you make out, don't just go randomly around doing it. Don't want to regret it.

 

[Thelonepickle]

Note:

...Your friends probably aren't as educated as they claim to be. :/

It'll just come naturally, I'm sure. And don't force it. XD Don't worry, you're alright. Worry when you're fifty, I spose.

 

[MESMAR_RISING]

Alright so basically I have never made out with a girl before. And since I'm 14 I feel like I want too so bad. Eh and I hear all my friends looking at porn and talking about it and krap gah that makes me want other things >.>
and there 14 whadda gonna do?eh?

So I don't understand anything. I dont understand if your suppose to use the tongue more. Lesbien kiss is ...Wow.... and well basically I don't know anything on this subject so help.

...I'm sorry, but when I first saw this topic I started laughing.

You're friends kinda sound like they're retards. The Fact that they look at porn means nothing other than that they have weak game, seriously. Get a girlfriend, then worry about what you're going to do. Just don't jam your tongue down her throat, and if she does don't be afraid to point out that she shouldn't.

Worry about getting a girlfriend before you think about making out.

 

[Swag]

Dave(jm3) said it all.

I laughed when I first saw this too.

I guess it just different. I'm 14 as well and I've made out with more girls than I care to remember. By the way, you're friends know nothing so don't listen to them. They just watch porn and act like they know, when probably the closest they've been to a girl is behind one in the lunch line. D=

Just worry about getting a girlfriend first, then worry about your first kiss. Also, try to find a girl that is an experienced kisser. That way she can teach you.

Just hope she's not like me, cuz when a I kiss a girl that can't kiss I bite her lower lip...

hard...

 

[Ysu]

So I noticed no one ever gave you any pointers, but rather told you not to worry, or gave you some moral lesson. I think you've heard more than enough of that. I'll take the different approach, of actually giving you advice you could use later, or maybe even now.

Now, when it naturally does happen, most people are horrible. Your not going to be the greatest kisser in the world on your first try. Everyone, including me, remembers their first makeout session as a horrible mess of saliva, tongues and missed targets. Pointers to help make it less of mess though. So remember this;

-Be sure you know your target, as in, don't miss.
-close your eyes
-don't automatically force your tongue down her throat
-its more about carressing the lips and massaging the tongue
-the lip motion is a gentle up and down motion, while caressing the lips smoothly and gently
-your tongue massages, it doesn't shove
-let things progress, start as a normal kiss, and go with the flow if it goes from there

You know it really is alot of easier if your both inexperienced. That way you can both laugh when saliva gets on your cheeks lol.

 

[Tyler Durden]

Making out comes naturally.

And it's not nice to laugh about this stuff; never kissed anybody till this year...

 

[Lady Aino]

Aww you're only 14 though...should you really be making out?

-_- But since it's clear that you want to make out so you need to just relax.
Don't rush into things, for the love of god, don't rush into it!! That's a major turn off for girls. No one wants a guy who seems like he's just in it so he can get into your pants. Use common sense, and yes I know you've never made out before, but still using basic common sense can help.
I wish I could give you better advice but different people do different stuff. Just gotta find your own style.

Good luck

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[Dogenzaka]

Making out doesn't necessarily mean using tongue. It's just constant repetitive kissing over and over and over. Just kissing all over eachothers faces LOL. Ok maybe not that messy, but you get the point.

I don't understand why humans kiss >_> it's like....there's no reason. People pushing eachothers anterior digestive tracts into eachothers and letting the saliva ooze into eachothers oral cavities? D: lol

Aww you're only 14 though...should you really be making out?

Have you been to public high schools these days?
Good God. They actually found a freshman couple having sex in the restroom at my school last year.

 

[System Shock]

ok, eveyones tellin you not to rush in to things or force it, im not telling you to do the opposite of that, heck no, theyve got the right idea DONT FORCE IT! im going tell you a different stand point

ok, first off take things nice and slow, if you like a girl start talkin to her a litle more and more maybe like sk her to be parteners in a project for school or something, then when your friendly with eachother, ask her maybe she wants to go to the movies or something, when that happens at the end of it DONT KISS HER, if u rush it want out the way you want, hang out a little bit and get close to her when you guys are alone, when in front your guys freinds hold her hand, it shows that you will frontally care and say that you love her in front of her friends, then when you maybe do somthing else with her and you stare at her get closer if she gets closer as well you head right in for the kiss and youll have her sweating!, kiss her and hold her tight caressing her lips softly and take it from there, eventually if u go out more with your girlfriend? she will let u get closer and closer to her with this caress lips when you kissand get a little tongue if she accepts it it should go pretty naturally from there

 

[Josh]

ok, eveyones tellin you not to rush in to things or force it, im not telling you to do the opposite of that, heck no, theyve got the right idea DONT FORCE IT! im going tell you a different stand point

ok, first off take things nice and slow, if you like a girl start talkin to her a litle more and more maybe like sk her to be parteners in a project for school or something, then when your friendly with eachother, ask her maybe she wants to go to the movies or something, when that happens at the end of it DONT KISS HER, if u rush it want out the way you want, hang out a little bit and get close to her when you guys are alone, when in front your guys freinds hold her hand, it shows that you will frontally care and say that you love her in front of her friends, then when you maybe do somthing else with her and you stare at her get closer if she gets closer as well you head right in for the kiss and youll have her sweating!, kiss her and hold her tight caressing her lips softly and take it from there, eventually if u go out more with your girlfriend? she will let u get closer and closer to her with this caress lips when you kissand get a little tongue if she accepts it it should go pretty naturally from there

FINALLY! Some good advice that I can actually use!

So I noticed no one ever gave you any pointers, but rather told you not to worry, or gave you some moral lesson. I think you've heard more than enough of that. I'll take the different approach, of actually giving you advice you could use later, or maybe even now.

Now, when it naturally does happen, most people are horrible. Your not going to be the greatest kisser in the world on your first try. Everyone, including me, remembers their first makeout session as a horrible mess of saliva, tongues and missed targets. Pointers to help make it less of mess though. So remember this;

-Be sure you know your target, as in, don't miss.
-close your eyes
-don't automatically force your tongue down her throat
-its more about carressing the lips and massaging the tongue
-the lip motion is a gentle up and down motion, while caressing the lips smoothly and gently
-your tongue massages, it doesn't shove
-let things progress, start as a normal kiss, and go with the flow if it goes from there

You know it really is alot of easier if your both inexperienced. That way you can both laugh when saliva gets on your cheeks lol.

That was good too xD

 

[Tyler Durden]

Making out doesn't necessarily mean using tongue. It's just constant repetitive kissing over and over and over. Just kissing all over eachothers faces LOL. Ok maybe not that messy, but you get the point.

I don't understand why humans kiss >_> it's like....there's no reason. People pushing eachothers anterior digestive tracts into eachothers and letting the saliva ooze into eachothers oral cavities? D: lol



Have you been to public high schools these days?
Good God. They actually found a freshman couple having sex in the restroom at my school last year.

HA! That is totally ridiculous.

 

[Josh]

Well we live in a cruel world...god forgive us.

 

[Stavvy]

Why would you say that the world is cruel? Something bad happen?

 

[Josh]

I'm christian. So seeing all the bad things in the world. Well you can see why...

 

[Dogenzaka]

HA! That is totally ridiculous.

Err...what is?