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sorasecondcoming

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well my bestfriends a girl and we have know eachother since like 3 well i like her alot i think she knows i like her.my other friends ask her if she likes me but she never says anything so i don't know i haven't told her face to face yet but i am really she and were like really good friends i mean like we wouldn't mind changing in front of each other so u got some pointers for me because i'm desperate
 

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Just ask her.That is the easiest and fastest approach.Man up and tell her how you feel, then ask her out.If she says no then at least you won't have to worry about that anymore.In my experience, it isn't good to go out with friends though,especially really good friends like you guys.You have to realize that if you start going out and it doesn't work,your relationship might never recover.But then again,that may not happen,it's all up to you.
 

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well i'm a girl, and if i had a best friend that was a guy, i'd just want him to be straightforward.
 

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if she doesn't mind change in front of you, then i'd have to say this whole thing won't go anywhere, i mean when you see someone who is naked and still don't feel anything, then the chance o f being together is not good.

another idea is just tell her, get it over with, if she doesn't like you back, too badm get over it sooner than you think
 

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I know I am being a pessimistic jerk but I dont think you should as her out ex:
I really like this girl who is and was my best friend and I decided to share my feelings I told her and instead of shooting me down she went out with another guy. Then after she broke up with him I tried a lil later and I go the "I just wanna be friends" line. So in closing there is a great chance of u getting hurt I am all for taking chances but this might not be worth it dude
 

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open your heart and give your emotions. If she is truly your friend she might respond with something nice at least. There are always possibility's of being shot down. But if you truly care for her you'll take the risk.

*sniff* i made it seem so beautiful.
Good luck! :D
 

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If you've known her forever, then why are you asking us ? You should know best since you knew her longer than us, no ? <.<
Do what the rest said, ask her. Simple.
 

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destiny13 said:
if she doesn't mind change in front of you, then i'd have to say this whole thing won't go anywhere, i mean when you see someone who is naked and still don't feel anything, then the chance o f being together is not good.

another idea is just tell her, get it over with, if she doesn't like you back, too badm get over it sooner than you think

no we've done other stuff to... i'm not going to tell u details and stuff but i don't know man gez
 

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boy....that sounds like me right now. im her bestfriend and she tells me EVERYTHING even the i like this guy and omg i hope he kisses me and stuff liek that....breaks my heart every time.....but then she said do you like me if you do thats ok and i thought no its not itll destroy our friendship....so i lied and said no. i have no expierience but just take a chance and do it. pick a good time and dont go uh well heh yeah ok?! good luck pal!
 
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You just have to ask, i regret not asking sum1 i fancied, dont go the same way...
 
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