Just.....why. My life is already bad enough, yet it keeps finding new fun ways to make me even more miserable. Basically what's happened lately is: 1. My mother cut my curtains saying it's always too dark in my bedroom and now I CAN'T SLEEP! 2. Didn't go to school merit trip to Cedar Point (theme park) so I had to break a promise with my best friend Jaz and she didn't go because I wasn't (and this was going to be the first time she would go to Cedar Point). 3. MY BROTHER IS SO FU**ING INSECURE!!! 4. One friend said to me today that I'll never get a boyfriend. 5. I'm scared my crush likes another girl (or two). 6. When I was going to finally tell my crush I had feelings for him, he went to go sit next to another girl. 7. When my friend was signing my school yearbook, two girls came up and asked if they could sign it. I told them, "Sure!". After my friend was done, the two girls whispered to eachother and snapped at us saying, "Forget it, let's go." And they walked away. My life is cruel to me.
Welp, seems like a roudy rumble this one. I'll see what I can do to cheer you up.
1. As Kitkat said, that's a pretty darn drastic way of your mom to make you 'see the sunlight'. I understand you'd be horribly disappointed in her, but maybe you can try to talk to her and tell her that it's hard to sleep now because of it?
2. Can't add much more to what Kitkat said. If you feel bad for your friend, don't be. You can just make it up to her next time something like this comes up. A friendship isn't a one time thing, nor is it something of 'paying debts'. Sometimes you look over your friend's mistake, sometimes you do something in place of him/her. It's a shame that it would've been her first time, but there will be a chance again later.
3. My sister's been through something like that as well, so I think I understand how you feel. And things are worse in the fact that he is your family, someone you can't just 'ditch' cuz you feel like it. I don't know if he's your older brother or younger brother, and age does depend on what you should do about it, but here's from me; if he's young, just leave him be and try to 'ignore' his insecurity. Time will solve this one. If he's old, then you might have to take a step back and listen to what he has to say and talk to him about it.
4. Don't take this seriously, unless that person was your best friend and she/he was being serious about it. There's no way anyone can understand fully about another person, let alone determine you can get a boyfriend or not. IF it was from a serious talk, ask that person where he/she came to that. It could be a simple misunderstanding, it could actually be a mistake you have, it could be nothing.
5+6. Okay, perhaps you needed to find a more 'private place' to confess to your crush. Putting that aside, sometimes having a 'crush' can make simple acts look suspicious. It could be a total coincidence that he just sat next to another girl when you were about to confess to him. The more you are excited about someone, the more you have to calm down and think straight. Otherwise you might be angry about the person you love, which you really shouldn't. If you haven't find a better chance to tell him about your sincerity. And be honest to him.
7. Jerks. What's their problem?
tl;dr: if it's not important, don't think about it. If it's important, talk about it to the person who started it. A little communication can fix a lot of problems and/or misunderstandings.