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Tell them in those words. Sugarcoating it doesn't really help. But if you're really not feeling up to being so direct, try and make some sort of unexplained move towards it; play on words to help it along.
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Just tell them how you feel. Be assertive.
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You should probably get a new best friend.
just flat out say it
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Say it, but get a new best friend afterward. That relationship will never be the same again.
^ Pretty sure if they wanted to piss off their friend it wouldn't be worth asking for help with. What if xxJonxx doesn't want to ruin it?
I really hate when people do that, to me, and when I'm doing it; it's just incredibly obnoxious and makes you look stupid because most of the time it can be seen through.
Be honest with them, like really honest; being aggressive/assertive about it will just start a fight. Ask them if you can just talk seriously for a minute and they'll listen.
I really hate when people do that, to me, and when I'm doing it; it's just incredibly obnoxious and makes you look stupid because most of the time it can be seen through.
Be honest with them, like really honest; being aggressive/assertive about it will just start a fight. Ask them if you can just talk seriously for a minute and they'll listen.
Well. I'm used to helping people on friend issues. The best way to do it is by being honest. Make sure your sincere and don't be rude about it. Ex. Hey I kinda want to talk to you about something. You know... Lately you've kinda gotten on my nerves i might have seena bit irritated with you for a few weeks now but I've been really annoyed with the way you've been acting lately. You just have been weirdly bossy. and kinda disrespectful did I piss you or or something? Coulda maybe chill out on the *insert problem here* just a bit Please
That was an example of how you could do it make sure your tone isn't demeaning or threatening either. Obviously make it sound just a bit more real than that but you get the picture.
That was an example of how you could do it make sure your tone isn't demeaning or threatening either. Obviously make it sound just a bit more real than that but you get the picture.
Wow, i totally know how you feel. This thread could be of help to me too.
Cool! Do you have a friend that got on your nerves.
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There's no way you're really 18.
Uh, yeah. She's just very irritating. I don't want to hit her tho lol I just don't want to be around her anymore.
Np these things can be hard to deal with especially if there a good friend. spend too much time thinking about it and not sure what to do :/ thinking so much only messes up clear thought on how to deal with a situation I mean come on it's your friend. Deserves that much thought, right?
Some people have more of a heart then it looks sometimes Sam, regardless of age XP At least he's thinking about it in a sensitve way and not being a douche about it. Btw when are you going to log back onto the RPG? It's fun seeing you get frustrated XPNp these things can be hard to deal with especially if there a good friend. spend too much time thinking about it and not sure what to do :/ thinking so much only messes up clear thought on how to deal with a situation I mean come on it's your friend. Deserves that much thought, right?
Yeah they have been my friends since freshman year of high school and I don't want to lose them. I believe we can work things out. Thanks Griever Again!
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Come on, I have a heart and don't like hurting my friends, but "bossy"?
When is the next chapter coming out?
lol Now when you say bossy XP. But never know if it's in college bossy could be a major annoyance don'tcha think? Controlling probably would be a better word though. Details~ Details~
lol hell if I know probably after summer. Had first Turf event today for DJ. TK won, naturally. I still want to know why you haven't jumped ship on a Squad D: could totally see you demolish some of these events.
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