follow true love? or the one you have?

[Sonja~Soulheart]

After reading, nana, this came to me... suppose a guy is committed to somebody. They love each other very much but it changed when the guy fell in love with someone else. Of course, I often hear people say follow true love (aka. heart) but isn't it mean? considering both circumstances, what should be done?

It should be fair though I have no maturity to talk about this... yet I want to know what you think... true love or love because you're commited to someone?

 

[AngelofAdvent]

well, if he wants to go with his true love, not the one he was commited too, i would choose to go with my true love. The right to pursue happiness.

 

[Zero]

If I was the man I would have definately have gone with the woman that I known for a longer time(the woman that the man was committed to)because I wouldnt know that much about the new girl,she could be a killer or she could cheat on men,stuff like that.So yeah I would go with the girl ive known for a long time.

 

[violent_anger]

Ah, I believe that Spider-man asked himself the same question many times about Gwen and MJ.

 

[Duality]

First of all, I would not have committed myself to someone whom I did not truly love.

However, that aside, if I had for some absurd reason, then I would follow true love. It's one of the main reasons I am alive.
If I were married to the other person and had children with them, I would under no circumstance leave them or cheat on them, for the sake of my children.

 

[?ŕ??мļēśş]

True love? How do I know the same thing wouldn't happen again? Most likely I would leave unless I liked the original relationship enough.

 

[Square Ninja]

This is more of a question about content with what you have right next to you or some nigh unattainable ideal. So I'll use this as an excuse to plug The Drinky Crow Show. It, however, is terribly relevant to the discussion.

EDIT: I can't seem to find the pilot episode anywhere.

 

[Charlie]

If you find someone that you absolutely love, regardless of whatever downfalls or faults that they have in another's eyes; then THAT is 'true' love. It's true that true love is also absolute perfection, and that perfection can easily become attainable when loved by another.


I may have just walked in complete circles here, but I'm basically saying that as long as you're content with the one you have, and to the point where you wouldn't trade them for anyone else (in much regard to SN's response)-


Then for the time being; That person is your 'true' love.


Someone that you love truly.

Not an unttainable ideal