Sorry this is just my opinion but neither Xion nor Kairi (not defending Kairi just Xion) were perfect in anyway,
LOL. I stopped taking you seriously after I read the bolded part.
for the 1st couple of weeks Xion was completly devoid of emotion,
Only because she lacked the necessary requirements to HAVE a personality. This is a situational flaw, not a character flaw.
she for a shot time couldnt even wield the keyblade,
Another situational flaw.
she had to struggle with the decision to return to Sora, or continue living as herself,
No, she didn't. xD She stayed living as herself because she thought it was what was best for her friends. Thus why she told Riku that she wanted to stay because her friends needed her. It was for THEIR sake, not her own, which makes the act completely selfless.
hell she even turned on Roxas in the end,
She PRETENDED to. So that Roxas would destroy her, thus no longer being a threat to his existence, and giving back Sora's memories so that everybody can have better lives. She "turned" on him for the sole purpose of helping everyone involved. It was a selfless sacrifice.
so Xion in my opinon had more thought put into her character than Aqua,
No, she had more perfect qualities put into her character than Aqua. At least Aqua had FLAWS, like, you know, HUMANS have. She was certainly more realistic.
& you sir insult me & my fellow club members by comparing the 2!
And you insult myself and my fellow Aqua fans by saying that XION was more well-thought out than Aqua.
ok this might hurt the validity of my argument but i didnt finish days, in my defence my DS broke & I let a chick who i was about to start dating, borrow it & she pawned it, but i did get half way through the game,
Okay, stop right here. You didn't even FINISH the game, so you never got to see Xion's ENTIRE character, only bits and pieces, and you STILL say she had more thought put into her than Aqua? Dude, finish the game before you make judgments like that! Because, otherwise, you have NO idea what the fcuk you're talking about, and probably shouldn't even take part in these kind of discussions, because you lack necessary information to do so effectively.
especially with Rikku bugging the hell out out her to quit her existance & return to Sora,
He didn't really do that, though. He let Xion do whatever the hell she wanted, even though doing so meant delaying Sora's awakening and possibly preventing it from happening at all.
& when she tries to do some soul searching & leave the orginization, one of her best friends, Axel is tasled with bassically kicking her ass & dragging her back,
He didn't HAVE to kick her ass. He only did so because she wouldn't go willingly. And even then, he showed before the battle that he only did so because he cared and wanted her back. Oh, how horrible it must be to have someone care for you that much, that he would do anything he could to bring her back home.
this alot to deal with considering at this point shes only been around for 6 months & is just learning to become a functing member of society (if you can call orginizations life society)
More than 6 months. She had been around the Organization for about a week after Roxas joins and about a month before Axel left for Castle Oblivion. About a week or so later, she becomes friends with Roxas. She isn't destroyed until almost a YEAR (give or take a few mere DAYS) later. She learned how to function as a member of society quite a while ago.
so yeah Xion had a whole lot of crap to deal with where as Aqua has no real conflicts other than take down the unverse & keep Terra out of darkness
Like hell, she didn't. Let's see, Aqua is saddled with the task of keeping Terra from the darkness and bringing Ven (a Terra fanboy, mind you) back home. It doesn't take too long for the two guys to find out what Aqua's missions were, and upon it coming to light, their friendships strain. This is a big deal considering Aqua and Terra have been friends for God only knows how long, while she met Ven during a time when he was mentally unstable due to his lack of memories. What his memories contain is what causes him such trouble later, something that could have been avoided altogether had Aqua brought Ven home right away (even though she really couldn't, since Ven wasn't willing). I'm sure this knowledge would bring her guilt.
Meanwhile, we see her doing her best to believe in Terra, but as she visits the worlds he's been to, and sees the aftermath of some of his actions, her belief becomes more of a "kidding herself" thing, where she WANTS to believe in him, but it's hard to do so when she had so much evidence that proves otherwise.
Then we get to the end where Ven and Terra go off to do their own separate battles, leaving Aqua as the only one being left behind to deal with whatever results are left behind. So, while she fought Braig in Terra's honor and to keep Ven safe, Ven ends up fighting Vanitas twice, with the second battle resulting in him and Vanitas merging, whom Aqua must fight if she wants to prevent destruction because of the Chi-blade, even though this also means she has to fight and defeat her best friend, as task I can't imagine her being too thrilled with. Not to mention that defeating Ven is what made him go unconscious.
After that, she has to fight her OTHER best friend, who has also merged with the bad guy, tries desperately to get through to him and fails, defeats him twice and nearly sends him to drift permanently in the darkness. At that point, she JUMPS INTO THE DARKNESS and damns herself to wander the Realm of Darkness just so she can save Terra, even though Ven still awaits them in a secret room a Castle Oblivion.
No conflict, my ass.