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Able_Beard

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So I've been dating a girl for two months and I'm having trouble deciding if I should be with her..I mean we have good days..and we have bad days..But the bad days are more frequent..

Cons:
She gets pissy easy
she's hates almost everything i like
She's not very smart..we barely ever talk about anything besides Sex..which we don't have..

Pros:
She's cute
She's cool with my friends
She's cool with my family

So...what do you guys think..
 

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So I've been dating a girl for two months and I'm having trouble deciding if I should be with her..I mean we have good days..and we have bad days..But the bad days are more frequent..

Cons:
She gets pissy easy
she's hates almost everything i like
She's not very smart..we barely ever talk about anything besides Sex..which we don't have..

Pros:
She's cute
She's cool with my friends
She's cool with my family

So...what do you guys think..

Well, in a relationship the most important things are getting along with each other, and having common interests... And, while they do count, her looks and ability to get along with family/friends, aren't what should matter.

I say you talk to her, and if you can't sort out your differences, break up. You shouldn't be in a relationship if you, or the other, don't enjoy it.
 

Able_Beard

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The thing is I know she's enjoying it cause the other day we got into a fight and she said it hurts to fight cause she's in love with me..That's when I started thinking if I really wanted to be with this girl for the rest of my life.. I don't know..we fight so much over everything. I'm probably gonna break up with her..I just need people to talk to..friends you know..All the one's I know around me would go and tell her...
 

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Nowhere on that list did it mention how you felt about her, which in my mind is technically the most important thing. Do you like her a bit or do you like her a lot? If that's not a factor into your decision then go with whether or not she makes you happy and you would miss her if she weren't around anymore, stuff like that. It can be a small indicator about how things are truly going.
 

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The thing is I'm not sure..I like her obviously or we would have never dated. I'm attracted to her..easily..But I'm not in love with her..And I just started feeling trapt and like I don't belong with her.. I mean if thing's were different..if I was more like her or she was more like me..I dunno.. I'd love to stay with her...Just..I don't see myself with her
 

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If you're feeling trapped and you just don't see yourself with her, that to me says you're just not that into her,
 

Roxanne

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Then it's probably time to let her go, dragging it out any further probably won't be good for either of you.

But at least sleep on it.
 
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