wear full riku costume. wield both riku keyblades. only reveal dual wielding capability if the date is going poorly.
Now, that's just a beginner. I've been picking up partners (i say partners instead of women because there have been so many that there is simply no telling if a dude has slipped in at some point) by using a more advanced Xigbar style. I simply wear an eyepatch and make snide remarks in a vaguely southern californian accent. "R for reload, H for how about you come up to my apartment"
Yeah, I've heard this story before. Tyler Brian. A freshman during my junior year. He really wanted to, excuse my language, seal the social studies teacher's daughter's key hole. I was able to get him into a much more presentable state. The biggest difficulty was that he refused to not wear his kingdom hearts merch. The clothes. The heartless symbol necklace. Etc. Working with what I had, I had him instead fully embrace this part of himself. I got the kid to dye his hair gray and wear orange eye contacts. His darkness was known to everyone and he scored the girl's phone number while I also got to have sex with his older sister.
It is enough to be sociable, interesting and a little attractive to get acquainted with girlfriends. So get to know girlfriends. This can be a cafe, a park, work, study, or through dating sites on the Internet.
The right relationships isn't something you search for. The right relationship finds you at the right time and place. This is one of the biggest things we get stuck on in life is that we need to look for love. And fortunately, when we look for love we end up with the wrong people. What you're saying is you want a woman with the same morals, values, and mindset.