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Well, heres some advice that comes from experiance:
I'm not going to say, and nobody else should say, STOP SMOKING THAT S**T YOUR GOING TO RUIN YOUR LIFE!!! because honestly this is a maturity issue that stems from trying to understand yourself. There are PLENTY of people that have smoked it and gotten away with it scott free, and have led very very good lives with little or no problems derived from smoking pot. Its only illigal and bad because the government says it is, but honestyly its not necessarialy true. Whatever "Bad" is simply cannot be determined in masse AND globally accepted... it doesn't work like that. Expecially with iffy subjects.
You still need to find out who you are and this is a common thing for everyone. Unfortunatly though it is illigal BECAUSE it does have negative and seriously debilitating consequences, whatever the chances. It DOES possibly lead to other drugs and differant levels of addiction, even though its not addicting itself, and it DOES alter your thought process which can potentially kill you or others around you.
But I know that people will allways do it, and therefore I have to prepare myself for this and not judge people on the decisions they make, expecially due to immaturity or stupidity or courage or learning about oneself, and im not saying smoking is immature or stupid, its that your still young and still depend on your parents and since your father smokes too its how you were raised. So it is not a "fault" just a learning experiance.
For whatever it is worth here is my advice: Come clean with your father and quit, but because I know that you wont I add that be smart in whatever you DO do that you dont put youreself in situations that could cause you harm, or others harm.
Its the same concept as if someone told me not to jump off from really tall heights, I love to challange myself and nomatter what anyone says to me, or tells me that its a bad idea I know my limits and will continue to jump off roofs or staircases untill A. My legs break, or B. I grow too old and my legs get ruined. I find it so much fun but I know its stupid even though I love the challange and the feeling of freefalling. However I DO know not to jump off something life threatening, and therefore I advise you to find your limits and learn from everything that you do. Lessons are only lessons if you learn something from it, and it stinks when you have to learn hard lessons more than once.
So good luck and hopefully you can keep us updated with how things go
I'm not going to say, and nobody else should say, STOP SMOKING THAT S**T YOUR GOING TO RUIN YOUR LIFE!!! because honestly this is a maturity issue that stems from trying to understand yourself. There are PLENTY of people that have smoked it and gotten away with it scott free, and have led very very good lives with little or no problems derived from smoking pot. Its only illigal and bad because the government says it is, but honestyly its not necessarialy true. Whatever "Bad" is simply cannot be determined in masse AND globally accepted... it doesn't work like that. Expecially with iffy subjects.
You still need to find out who you are and this is a common thing for everyone. Unfortunatly though it is illigal BECAUSE it does have negative and seriously debilitating consequences, whatever the chances. It DOES possibly lead to other drugs and differant levels of addiction, even though its not addicting itself, and it DOES alter your thought process which can potentially kill you or others around you.
But I know that people will allways do it, and therefore I have to prepare myself for this and not judge people on the decisions they make, expecially due to immaturity or stupidity or courage or learning about oneself, and im not saying smoking is immature or stupid, its that your still young and still depend on your parents and since your father smokes too its how you were raised. So it is not a "fault" just a learning experiance.
For whatever it is worth here is my advice: Come clean with your father and quit, but because I know that you wont I add that be smart in whatever you DO do that you dont put youreself in situations that could cause you harm, or others harm.
Its the same concept as if someone told me not to jump off from really tall heights, I love to challange myself and nomatter what anyone says to me, or tells me that its a bad idea I know my limits and will continue to jump off roofs or staircases untill A. My legs break, or B. I grow too old and my legs get ruined. I find it so much fun but I know its stupid even though I love the challange and the feeling of freefalling. However I DO know not to jump off something life threatening, and therefore I advise you to find your limits and learn from everything that you do. Lessons are only lessons if you learn something from it, and it stinks when you have to learn hard lessons more than once.
So good luck and hopefully you can keep us updated with how things go