Have you ever had a breaking-up with a friend? If so, was it hard? Have you overcome that particular stage of your life?
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But yes, have you had a break-up?
Let me start:
Spoiler ShowI had a best friend, like a brother from another mother. We were friends since middle school, up until after our senior year ended. It was August or September. He wrote some serious stuff on Twitter. A couple of hours later, I contacted him on Facebook with our trivial humorous discussion that Android (my favorite OS) is better than his (iOS). Afterwards, I asked him if he wanted to talk about something. He did not reply, so I asked him: assuming you do not want to talk about it, could I tell you something? He said "No", but it did not stop there. He insulted me, saying I had problems, all because I wanted to try and approach him about the things he typed on Twitter. Anyhow, I left that aside and decide to ignore him (mind you, he likes doing this to anyone, and by anyone, yes, I mean it in every sense of the word: friends and relatives). He would ignore text messages from his mother, brother, girlfriend, best friends, anyone. Again, I decided to ignore him, but afterwards, him, me and other three friends were planning on going back to have some fun at our high school with some of the teachers. Since I was very busy with College, on the Facebook group chat we had, I said that, because I had a lot of college-related stuff to do, I could not participate. Ever. One of the other friends, an idiot, said: no one's talking with ya. I replied: since I'm part of the conversation I assumed I was still part of it (it being the meet-up). Him: no one asked you. Then they all started laughing and even my "best friend" started making comments about: yeah! Tell him! (Basically adding fuel to the fire). Funny, that same friend that back-talked me was the same one that either tried to steal the girl my friend wanted or he just wanted to try and humiliate him in front of his ex-girlfriend. He knew it and even decided to not talk with him much (but that was all talk, since after breaking-up with his girlfriend a guy he knew started flirting her and this for some reason irked him. He did not like the guy afterwards, but he still talked with him, joked with him and even help him enter the Air Force and where to go and stuff). Days passed, I was still part of the conversation, this somehow "ticked" him and would rant that I should be removed (I assumed the one that initiated the group chat could remove the members back then, and since I simply did not want to leave, over pride, I stayed). This would go on and on and on and on and... on... Yeah. After that I stopped talking to him, really. I am in college and afterward I shall enter the world of a job, as in, I shall meet a lot of people. Hell, I am friends with one of my State's top political positions and she dedicates me more time than that individual did. Sometimes I would message him and the text would never see a reply or it would say it was seen by him. She, a VERY busy person, even if hours later, would reply. Since he was leaving for the Marines, it might as well have been a good opportunity to leave things behind me since we will never see each other again, and if otherwise, if the situation calls for it, I'll just greet him like people I do not know: Hey! How are you? And as you may contemplate, yes, I have overcome that particular stage of my life. It was not the first time we had a sort of break-up, so the deception this time was not a tear-dropping experience like the past one did. But to be honest, looking back, it is incredible how human relationships can change in a whim. Six years all thrown away over something so small and stupid.
But yes, have you had a break-up?