Help/Support ► Bitch or friend?

[MangaCrazy101]

Okay I know this will be weird asking you guys and all that but I have one of my best friends who is always cold to us now. I hopped on MSN yesterday night and I said
me: hi!
She didnt really respond the way she does so aked her if she was ok.
Friend: do i SOUND ok?No good cause it's none of your bussiness! So you can go and tell everyone. (im not good at keeping secrets if the peson is in major trouble or peril )
me: ok you don't have to tell me.
Then she raved on more about how she doesnt want to talk to our group I was really saddened and asked her to stop yelling.
Friend: I'm not yelling! In fact this is IM, so I'm not even talking! Your SO annoying! You and -----!!!! (My 2nd other bff) Go piss off I don't want to talk to you so F*** OFF!

That was when i started crying and called my other friend. I still havent told my other bff...
What do I do? I didnt talk to her after that.

 

[Noir]

Okay I know this will be weird asking you guys and all that but I have one of my best friends who is always cold to us now. I hopped on MSN yesterday night and I said
me: hi!
She didnt really respond the way she does so aked her if she was ok.
Friend: do i SOUND ok?No good cause it's none of your bussiness! So you can go and tell everyone. (im not good at keeping secrets if the peson is in major trouble or peril )
me: ok you don't have to tell me.
Then she raved on more about how she doesnt want to talk to our group I was really saddened and asked her to stop yelling.
Friend: I'm not yelling! In fact this is IM, so I'm not even talking! Your SO annoying! You and -----!!!! (My 2nd other bff) Go piss off I don't want to talk to you so F*** OFF!

That was when i started crying and called my other friend. I still havent told my other bff...
What do I do? I didnt talk to her after that.

Then don't fucking talk to her again.
Simple.
She's being a dramatic drama bitch who thinks she can move on, but in about a month, she'll whine about talking shit and beg to be allowed "Back in the group."
This is where you tell her, quite nicely, "Fuck off, you ugly bitch. You're SO annoying! Go piss off, we never want to talk to you so FUCK OFF.

 

[Shadow Soldier]

Give her space. If she still considers you a friend, the best thing to do is give her space, and let her realize that she misses talking to you and shit.

If she says shut up, then don't respond after that. No need to say "Okay" or anything, just stop talking all together. Let her figure out the mess going through her head.

 

[Nyangoro]

Methinks she is upset about something. Give her some time to cool off. If she wants to talk about it later, just hear her out.

 

[Oracle Spockanort]

Give her some space. If she isn't talking to you guys, there might be something else gong on with her. Sometimes its inner self issues, it could be family problems. When she wants to talk, she will. If she doesn't I would wait some time before approaching her and trying to get it out of her but don't claw it out of her to where she says something like "I don't want to be your friends anymore"

 

[Aqua.]

sounds to me that you and your group of friends are not cool. and she wants to try acting cool? so she decides to ditch you guys and doesn't want to be seen talking to you guys since you guys are "losers"? idk its a possibitlity.

hmm..

maybe someone was talking about you or you guys.

or maybe you and the other friend keep getting higher test scores then her so she is really pissed off and finally blew?

don't talk to her..don't look at her, don't even wave hello or anything, just pretend she's another stranger until she approaches you..if she ever does again.

unless she IS trying to act all cool now, then approach her and confront her telling her to stop being some fake bitch and then that ruins her chances at trying to be "cool" and she probably won't be friends with you guys again..O:
unless you guys accept her again or something >~O idk.

-
lol she's stupid..
she said

"do i SOUND ok?"
and then she's all like
"this is IM so im not even TALKING"

xDDD wow.

 

[MangaCrazy101]

Okay thanks for the advice.
I have now found out some more things she said and i have decided never to talk to her again.
Things she has said are unforgivable and I hate her.
Sorry for the stupid thread

 

[Divine Comedy]

This is what happens when you can't keep a secret.

 

[System Shock]

Sounds to me like Wayne Brady is gonna have to choke a bitch

 

[Divine Comedy]

Sounds to me like Wayne Brady is gonna have to choke a bitch

This is not an option nigga, either smoke this shit or we will have a problem.

 

[Pinwheel]

Bitch's on her period.
____________

 

[Shadow Soldier]

I never really fully realized how retarded people are on this site until I read your posts....

 

[Aqua.]

I never really fully realized how retarded people are on this site until I read your posts....

are you talking about me? fuck, the kid said i helped him! so you shut up.

just forgive her, then forget it :OO

 

[_EX]

It sounds like someone has said something to her about you and ----. Find out what she has been told about you, then correct the mistakes.

 

[Tenacious]

You may wanna give her a chance to cool off so she can really tell you the problem.

You shouldn't just turn on them like that just because they're angry about something.

 

[MangaCrazy101]

This has been going on forever every time something bad happens i am just supposed to crawl back to her on my feet and i am sick of being walked over! So yeah... thanks

 

[Death]

She's probably on her Month Xp.

No she really is acting bitchy though <.< SHe isn't your friend. SHe probably used you or like i said It's her time of the Month.

 

[Shadow Soldier]

She's probably on her Month Xp.

No she really is acting bitchy though <.< SHe isn't your friend. SHe probably used you or like i said It's her time of the Month.

Girl's dont get that bitchy when they're on the period. Their mood stays the same, they just go through pain. That's just a stupid excuse to blame it on the time of the month.

 

[Sawah]

Girl's dont get that bitchy when they're on the period. Their mood stays the same, they just go through pain. That's just a stupid excuse to blame it on the time of the month.

Yeah, we're only bitchy right before our period. This isn't PMS, this is just bitch. There's really nothing to blame it on.

Seriously, leave her. You said you have two other best friends, so just stay with them. There's no sense in hanging with a jerk who doesn't appreciate you.

 

[MangaCrazy101]

Thanks Dj-san
And yeah this is just her...