Sorry to annoy you guys, but I have another Girl Problem.
How do you know when to not come on too strong?
It's like you talk to a girl you like, but you want to play it cool, and not let her catch to the fact that you like her. If you even come on and give her the hint, the idea, that you want to bf/gf off the bat, she'll do everything in their power to not hang out with you......well in this case me. Like this one girl I asked to hang out, she said she had homework, but went to a party instead.
The problem is that it's so hard to be yourself around girls. I'm more of the quiet-laid back type. Sometimes I think I'm too quiet. I have friends that are good at getting girls. They can make girls laugh on impulse, can keep a conversation going, and they have that swagger that girls fall for. I can't nor do I have any of the three. Sometimes I try to copy what some people do, to think that it would impress girls. All in all I can't be myself, because that won't get the girls I want to meet.
Not to bring race into the issue and my apologies for the stereotypical comment, but I'm black, and they're supposed to have the swagger that I was talking about before. I wonder sometimes if I should just stop trying. There are many relationships that could've and should've had, but never capitalized on them.
Any ideas?
How do you know when to not come on too strong?
It's like you talk to a girl you like, but you want to play it cool, and not let her catch to the fact that you like her. If you even come on and give her the hint, the idea, that you want to bf/gf off the bat, she'll do everything in their power to not hang out with you......well in this case me. Like this one girl I asked to hang out, she said she had homework, but went to a party instead.
The problem is that it's so hard to be yourself around girls. I'm more of the quiet-laid back type. Sometimes I think I'm too quiet. I have friends that are good at getting girls. They can make girls laugh on impulse, can keep a conversation going, and they have that swagger that girls fall for. I can't nor do I have any of the three. Sometimes I try to copy what some people do, to think that it would impress girls. All in all I can't be myself, because that won't get the girls I want to meet.
Not to bring race into the issue and my apologies for the stereotypical comment, but I'm black, and they're supposed to have the swagger that I was talking about before. I wonder sometimes if I should just stop trying. There are many relationships that could've and should've had, but never capitalized on them.
Any ideas?