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ya what chosen said where here 4 u guys no matter what
well since u said that u had crushes on other girls but this one wont stop and u cant get over her and u have sweet dreams about her, then she's probably the one 4 u. and the fact that she's dating a 19 year old is just horrifying un less they're at least 28 lol anyways jst hang out and when u know each other more and more and hang out like friends do then one day actually ask her out and that was the cutest story i've ever heard and i did read all of it:wub::wub: lol
Okay. . . .I don't like to say this, and I only do in concern for your future ANime-chic, but spelling and puntuation of some kind would be a good thing. Sorry. It sounds rude but people will take you much more seriosuly.
It's the thought that counts, Chosen, even though I agree with you somewhat. ^_^
Aww, you're too sweet. Thanks for your input. <3
lol sure by the way I know how to spell, its just that I was in a hurry okay. (are you happy now?) anyways will you be my friend Deeman?
Dee wats been goin on give updates please
Well, nothing majorly awesome has happened.
She's been a little flirtsy lately, but she's also been talkative and friendly. I just love being around her. As you can all tell, these feelings I have aren't going away; instead, they're getting stronger. Too much do I catch her eye, too much do I feel like telling her my feelings, and too much do I get envious of her and her boyfriend.
But alas, I only want what's best for her, and if that's with her boyfriend, then so be it.
She's been a little flirtsy lately, but she's also been talkative and friendly. I just love being around her. As you can all tell, these feelings I have aren't going away; instead, they're getting stronger. Too much do I catch her eye, too much do I feel like telling her my feelings, and too much do I get envious of her and her boyfriend.
But alas, I only want what's best for her, and if that's with her boyfriend, then so be it.
wow bro that sucks badly i feel for you keep waiting it out u'll be fine
Thank you so much. That means a lot to me. <3
As for updates, still nothing much has happened. I got to hang out with her today, but she was mostly with her boyfriend.
*Sigh*
We'll see... we'll see...
what i dont understand is, why would her parents let her go out with a 19 year old? i mean im only aloud to go out with people in my grade
Phew, some story Deeman. I read the whole thing. Hmmm...I've been stuck in similar situations. She is being really flirty with you despite having a boyfriend (the whole staring at you, resting her head, etc...). I mean, I hate to say it, but she just may enjoy the attention as opposed to that actual feelings you have for her. Girls can be like that, no matter how nice they seem. Don't get me wrong, there are wonderful girls out there. I just want you to think of that possibility.
In any case, what to do....Mounting tension, growing feelings, and the need to burst out and tell her how you feel....Plug that into a formula and you get...
I would say stay out of it so long as she is in a relationship with the boyfriend. It's simply wrong and disrespectful to their relationship to be intervening (especially when she appears to like her boyfriend). Now, my advice on waiting for her to break up or moving on...I'd would say consider if she is really everything you have ever dreamed of? Is it not an infatuation? Would her flirtiness with you stop with other boys if you two were in a relationship? Is she the one? Tough questions.
I know it's hard to tell, without having been in a relationship with her, if she is everything you want, but there exists an intuition about everyone. Commitment. Consider how far you would be willing to go for her. And think about how far you think she might. How well do you know her? Intimately like a best friend? Or just friends who laugh and hang out? If she is a best friend of yours, I would wait for her to break up. If you think she would still be flirty, and she isn't a best friend, I would suppress the feelings and move on. How to move on? Patience. Hang out with other people. Other friends. Games. Homework (yes, homework). Attempt to stay away from her as much as possible. You have to go all out on it. It can't be gradual. In other words, you have to be sure it is best for you to move on.
I hope things work out Deeman. In fact, I'm sure they will.
In any case, what to do....Mounting tension, growing feelings, and the need to burst out and tell her how you feel....Plug that into a formula and you get...
I would say stay out of it so long as she is in a relationship with the boyfriend. It's simply wrong and disrespectful to their relationship to be intervening (especially when she appears to like her boyfriend). Now, my advice on waiting for her to break up or moving on...I'd would say consider if she is really everything you have ever dreamed of? Is it not an infatuation? Would her flirtiness with you stop with other boys if you two were in a relationship? Is she the one? Tough questions.
I know it's hard to tell, without having been in a relationship with her, if she is everything you want, but there exists an intuition about everyone. Commitment. Consider how far you would be willing to go for her. And think about how far you think she might. How well do you know her? Intimately like a best friend? Or just friends who laugh and hang out? If she is a best friend of yours, I would wait for her to break up. If you think she would still be flirty, and she isn't a best friend, I would suppress the feelings and move on. How to move on? Patience. Hang out with other people. Other friends. Games. Homework (yes, homework). Attempt to stay away from her as much as possible. You have to go all out on it. It can't be gradual. In other words, you have to be sure it is best for you to move on.
I hope things work out Deeman. In fact, I'm sure they will.
she probably likes you, well if she flirts with you then you can tell, just trust me
perhaps, but her and her bf would have broken up...
but maybe it's one of those tough "can't choose" relationships... she doesn't want to upset her boyfriend, but she may like you...
I'd laugh if she was a disguised member of KHI, viewing this thread...lol!
That's an intresting way to put it. Come to think of it, her boyfriend once mentioned that she tends to be flirty towards guys--maybe guys she doesn't even like?
Pain squared.
I hate to say this, but I agree with you, and I never intended on purposely trying to ruin their relationship. I'm just desperately wanting her to come to me.
Tough questions indeed. I've had crushes on many girls, but never have I had such feelings for a girl like this. It feels so deep and secretly intimate...
Recently, I've been hanging out with my friends, and these kind of things tend to take my mind off her temporarily. Yes, temporarily. And alas, the feelings jot their way back into my mind. I don't know how long this will last.
Thank you for taking the time to write all of this. You are truly a kind a person. I appreciate it more than you think.
~<3
if i was her id dump that 19 year old wannabe boyfriend
Get her email adress, and start IMing her, that way, no one else will know... not even her boyfriend...
Or call her
Or call her
I already have her email. She's on my facebook, my MSN, and I have her number.
I'm not going to call and randomly talk to her, though, because I don't want her to find out I like her.
I'm not going to call and randomly talk to her, though, because I don't want her to find out I like her.
Well that's rather strange. Not out of the ordinary really, just strange, why is it that man knowingly denies himself what he wants most.
The girls not married.
The girls not married.
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