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I'm going to say this first: I did not read the responces because that would change my view on your first post.
First thing, don't completely faun over her. I know that if you try to get too close too quick, you're likely to push her away.
Second, be there for her when she needs someone to talk to, and stay away if she gives signals she doesn't want you around. Chances are, if something is wrong, it's not about you when someone does that, but the gender difference is enough to keep some subjects away from the opposite sex.
Third, gifts are vastly overrated. Good on occasion, great if it's a surprise, but not all the time, not if you want her to love you more than the gifts. And keep it simple if you do give them. Save the extravagent things for special occasions.
Finally, make sure that don't try to impress her by going out of your way. I see that as pretty much lying and it's not really that impressive if it's obvious that's what you're trying to do.
If I'm repeating something from someone else, something I have said must be right lol. Good luck Gil!
First thing, don't completely faun over her. I know that if you try to get too close too quick, you're likely to push her away.
Second, be there for her when she needs someone to talk to, and stay away if she gives signals she doesn't want you around. Chances are, if something is wrong, it's not about you when someone does that, but the gender difference is enough to keep some subjects away from the opposite sex.
Third, gifts are vastly overrated. Good on occasion, great if it's a surprise, but not all the time, not if you want her to love you more than the gifts. And keep it simple if you do give them. Save the extravagent things for special occasions.
Finally, make sure that don't try to impress her by going out of your way. I see that as pretty much lying and it's not really that impressive if it's obvious that's what you're trying to do.
If I'm repeating something from someone else, something I have said must be right lol. Good luck Gil!