Help/Support ► 1st girlfriend (Maybe)
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Dating someone only through looks is stupid. Sure that's there "What if they hit it off?" but chances are no. Why would you waste your time and effort on someone you don't. Dating for looks ends badly 90% of the time. Its really just common sense. In order for two people to really connect they need to know each other.
So what if it is high school. You apparently don't grasp the idea of what dating really is. It isn't about "Hey your cute want to call each other boyfriend and girlfriend?? lolololol." Its about connect with someone on a mental and emotional level. Not [borat voice]"hey want to be sexy time? A NICE!"[/borat voice]
Really now? Sow how exactly do you get to do doing that? Calling her might help. Or talking to her to get to know her. Your all making it seem as if he should completely avoid her or something because he didn't get to know her first. Physical attraction is very important in relationships. There has to be some attraction before two people can click. No one goes out for looks. They go out for looks and substance they discover later on.
If you read my other posts you would notice that I told him to get to know her first as a friend (aka talk to her more friend to friend). Not jump into the dating thing. And physical attraction is important in relationships but it should not be the foundation of the relationship.
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DOIT.
You need a gf, considering I have had more, and I'm 13. But know her first
As for girls, I wouldn't know what to say, even though most of my friends are girls.
You need a gf, considering I have had more, and I'm 13. But know her first
As for girls, I wouldn't know what to say, even though most of my friends are girls.
No, you don't need a girlfriend, I had one last year and it was terrible. 8th grade might not have been the best time to have one but the fact was, the only reason I asked her out was because she liked me. Sure, she was pretty, but being her friend was all I ever wanted. As for the situation of the thread, I say call her but don't act all desperate and go out with her, the fact that she acted like that when you never saw her tells me she is either pulling a prank or is very strange.
Women are all strange If I liked her by now in my life I would sit next to her next time on the bus. Confidently and I would ask her what the deal was with the letter confidently. That is only because that is so easy and I would have liked to have more experience with women even if it failed miserably, always hoped it would work out if I tried it ever but realistically relationships that age hardly ever last. At your age I was not as wise though I would go for it if I was you though. Sounds hard but it will only get harder to talk to women and have a girl friend the longer you put it off.
Eh, forget it. I haven't seen her at school in a few days, so she might have forgotten about me. Or it was a prank. Whichever. *shrugs* Anyway, thanks for the advice, I'll use it in the future. [CLOSED]
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