okay, i wasn't trying to be pedantic at all. i just wasn't entirely sure. firstly, i'm trans myself so bringing that whole thing up at the end was just like "wat?" and i wanted to make sure that you did refer to him as he. i work with a lot of trans folk who can flip at the drop of a hat at being misgendered, that's all.
secondly, i completely misspoke on the sexuality part, and did not think that one through. for that i am sorry. i mean, i believe that there's as many sexualities as there are people to come up with them, which goes completely against my badly-worded post.
eh, just wanted to let you know these things since you locked the thread. nothing i was saying was to be annoying or anything; just when trans is brought up, i tend to get involved since being trans is a personal matter for me.