Help/Support ► I want to confess my love for this girl.

[Ace.]

I met her on the Internet two years ago, and we've been talking every other day since then. We've skyped, sent each other gifts, etc. I'm thinking about confessing my love for her tomorrow on Facebook. The only problem besides the age difference (I'm 22, she's 15) is that she has a bf.

Should I? Do any of you guys have a similar experience that you could share as advice?

 

[Jesus]

Yeah please don't.

 

[Taylor]

no no you shouldn't do that at all

tbh i thought this was about elle for a while.

 

[CaptainMarvelQ8]

So let me get this clearly.....she's 7 years younger than you AND has a boyfriend.

definitely,go for it.

 

[Jesus]

7 years younger
This is wrong

 

[Deleted member 36435]

no .

 

[Sign]

I honestly can't see how or why you'd think this would be a good idea.

 

[ChaoticHeart]

She's 14? Then no. Even if it's just 'professing your love', when she's 7 younger than you I'm fairly sure it'll get you on some kind of list.

 

[Dentim]

Is it legal where you live? :3











But seriously, don't. I can't see this ending well.

 

[Zen]

1 word

jailbait

 

[ChaoticHeart]

1 word

creepy

That's what you meant, but seriously dude, please don't do that.

 

[Zero]

Even if you two where closer in age it wouldnt end well, there are so many things that makes this a bad idea.

 

[Hamster Lord]

well at least you weren't talking about elle-chan lol

and yeah don't do it.

 

[noheartx]

I'm curious as to why you think this is a good idea. I mean...did any bells ring at all. Ever heard of statutory rape? Also, how the bonk did you meet her?

 

[Monkey]

There is nothing wrong with seven years younger, the rule is divide by two and add seven.

Ie, 24 year old / 2 = 12 + 7 = 19.

A 24 year old can go as young as 19.

However you are over 18 and she is below, so I would back the bonk off as far away as possible.

 

[Ace.]

Ever heard of statutory rape?

is it legal where you live? :3

She's 14? Then no. Even if it's just 'professing your love', when she's 7 younger than you I'm fairly sure it'll get you on some kind of list.

Woah, chill out people.

I wasn't asking if I should "hit it" I was asking if I should tell her how I feel.

I wouldn't do anything sexual with her...I don't even plan on meeting her yet. But, stuff happens, people grow apart, I was thinking I should let her know before something, anything, happens to strain our friendship. What I'm wondering is if telling her this would be the strain, since there's an age gap and she has a bf.

 

[Zul]

Woah, chill out people.

I wasn't asking if I should "hit it" I was asking if I should tell her how I feel.

I wouldn't do anything with her...

Show her your conversations with elle, that'll get you in her pants brah.

 

[noheartx]

uhm...then whats the point in loving her?

 

[Zen]

People don't throw the word "love" around because they don't want to do anything with that person. Unless you mean to wait till she's legal, which makes this whole situation a pretty disturbing thought.

 

[ChaoticHeart]

But if you're 22, why are you even chatting to a 14 year old? And I agree with Wastewander, if you're thinking of waiting 'till she's legal, then that makes this even worse.