Help/Support ► Gurrrlfriend issues. No seriously, this chick's horrible.

[Szayel Aporro]

Well you see.
I was friends, with this girl, since we were like... 3.
And like, I didn't see her as much as I do now, and we were like, really close friends.
Up until now.
Last year, I moved to a new state... and her family moved here too.
At first I thought, it would be great. Fun! Having a friend to move here with!
And during the first couple of weeks. It was great!

But then, after a while-I started to make new friends, friends that I had more stuff in common. Like, music, tv... (besides the Jonas Brothers loving ones. D<) So she began to get.... jealous?
So, she began to make up lies about herself
That she OWNED a fucking highway, and that her mom was a professional dancer. (her mom's a fat ugly bitch by the way.) And first off, I'm not stupid, her lies are so fucking obvious.

So yeah. Then, she starts making plans behind my backs, and talking shit about me to other kids.

Then, during Halloween.... She was Hannah Montana. (okay, we're teenagers. That was pretty pathetic) and she started to sing her songs (.... she can't sing worth shit either.) so I said "Please, no one wants to hear those annoying songs."
Later on in the week, we get a call from her mom saying that we got in a huge fight and I made her cry.
First off, no.
Second off, No.
And lastly... NO!!

So, she was telling all these shit lies to her parents, saying that I began to beat her up and crap. (I'm a verbal fighter, NOT physical.)
Her parents started calling me a traitor and a liar, in front of my face.
I'm 14, do you really think parents should say that about other kids?

And finally, this lasted throughout the whole year, her telling lies about me. Making plans behind my back, then all of my friends saying how awesome she is and why I never hang out with them. I'm never fucking INVITED.

And finally, Highschool started.
The first time I see her, she walks past my locker, shoves me in there and closes the locker on my head.
The other day, she punched me in the face.

What in the hell is her problem?!
Some friend!

EDIT: I confronted her.
Really, she laughed in my face, and said...
"What the hell are you talking about? I never talk about you behind your back!"
I cocked my eyebrow, staring at her. And asked again her what her problem was.
She laughed again, and went to her next class.

She's avoiding it.

EDIT 2: I did it again.
I didn't let her leave that time, and I didn't regret it.
She was pissed at me after I told her she was being a jealous bitch and that she should die for it.
After that I said 'Just stop, okay? You hate me, fine-I hate you too. But you don't have to drag it out.'
She rolled her eyes and nodded.
'And I swear to god, if you ever punch me again, I will shove your ass down your throat.'
Okay, so I threatened her a little. But she said 'Fine. I wont, okay? Now let me go home'

I think I did that pretty maturely. ^^
She hasn't bothered me since then. Though, I still see her in algebra. DX

 

[afrobutt]

lol drama.

Uh... get better friends?

 

[Essence of Elegy]

I think this is the situation where "no hitting girls" just doesn't apply, am I right?

 

[Szayel Aporro]

lol drama.

Uh... get better friends?

I'm kinda stuck with the ones I have now.
I was introduced, no way I'm getting away from them.
But don't get me wrong, I'm close to them. She just keeps getting in the way.

Not to mention, our parents are friends too. And my brother and her sister.

I think this is the situation where "no hitting girls" just doesn't apply, am I right?

Oh, and I am a girl. lulz.
Bitch slap fights may occur.

 

[Ren]

That's the dumps.
Seriously, get help. She's nuts.

 

[afrobutt]

I'm kinda stuck with the ones I have now.
I was introduced, no way I'm getting away from them.
But don't get me wrong, I'm close to them. She just keeps getting in the way.

Not to mention, our parents are friends too. And my brother and her sister.

Just ignore her? Or get a restraining order, idk

Oh, and I am a girl. lulz.
Bitch slap fights may occur.

Oh. If that's the case, you'll be wanting to settle it with a lingerie-jello fight. That's how the girls around here deal with their loldrama.

 

[Iridium]

And finally, Highschool started.
The first time I see her, she walks past my locker, shoves me in there and closes the locker on my head.
The other day, she punched me in the face.

What in the hell is her problem?!
Some friend!

Tell her to fuck off and stop lying..

Honestly it's quite pathetic of her to be doing all of these things to get you back for god knows what.
Really, the best thing you could do is confront her, alone so you can sort things out.

But if I were in your shoes I woulda smacked a bitch or two.
Well, self defense wise >_> I mean jesus...

Things happen for a reason, and what's been happening to you is a clear sign of, "is this the person I thought I knew back then?" Give it some thought and update the situation if you can.

 

[Reflection]

Aw, Muffy.

What a horrible person.

Tell your other friends, get all of this out, make it clear that she's lying to as many people important to you as possible. This happened to me with someone in middle school and if you don't do anything about it, it just gets worse. Talking to your parents wouldn't hurt either, especially if your parents are friends. And if all else fails I'd just try to branch out of your current group of friends and meet new people, because generally you meet people from them too.

:<

 

[Szayel Aporro]

Oh. If that's the case, you'll be wanting to settle it with a lingerie-jello fight. That's how the girls around here deal with their loldrama.

Meh. Not too sure about that.
I don't want to imagine her in lingerie. Disgusting thought.


I've told my parents, my friends from my old hometown, my family.
I have no clue where the guidance office might be.
But you see, if I do confront her-she'll tell my friends who are also friends with her, then there will be a whole war.
I can't stand this situation.

 

[Apostle]

I've met people like this and it's pretty sad.

if you dislike it that much you could tell everyone the truth and the truth about her, or you could do somthing else idk

i got nothin.

 

[Reflection]

I have no clue where the guidance office might be.

Find it!
Might be a good place to start. =/

But you see, if I do confront her-she'll tell my friends who are also friends with her, then there will be a whole war.

omg.
that's what happened to me.
I still get dirty looks. >_>

 

[Apostle]

Meh. Not too sure about that.
I don't want to imagine her in lingerie. Disgusting thought.


I've told my parents, my friends from my old hometown, my family.
I have no clue where the guidance office might be.
But you see, if I do confront her-she'll tell my friends who are also friends with her, then there will be a whole war.
I can't stand this situation.

yeah, find the guidence office.

this will sound really goody goody, but you should tell some sort of authority figure. maybe in school. problems only get worse if they're untreated.

 

[Pelafina]

(I'm a verbal fighter, NOT physical.)

Awesome.

lol drama.

Uh... get better friends?

Yes, this.

 

[Szayel Aporro]

Argh. My highschool's so huge, might be hard.

But yeah.
And I told my parents, EVERYONE I know who would stay on my side.
I'm just terrified to tell any of my other friends.

To be perfectly honest, I don't talk that much in school, and having the label EMO tattooed to my forehead, it's kind of hard to get friends that I didn't already know.
So, I would love to kind of stray away from them. But I can't really, you know?

 

[afrobutt]

Meh. Not too sure about that.
I don't want to imagine her in lingerie. Disgusting thought.

Are you just saying that because she's a bitch or is she really hot?

But you see, if I do confront her-she'll tell my friends who are also friends with her, then there will be a whole war.
I can't stand this situation.

If they'll stop being friends with you because of rumors, then they're pretty lame

 

[WilliamTheWise]

Have you told her this. I mean it sounds like she really wants to be around you and is trying to get your attention. After seeing that lying and tricks won't work on you she has resulted to physical abuse. Don't fight back, that's what she whats you to do. How do you kill a snake? Cut it's head off ( Or shoot it to death with a AK-47 or burn it), but I mean stop this at the source. The only way this will end will be if both of you talk it out. Peer mediation may work or ask you guidance counselorsto let you two talk it out.

Basically what Reflection said, but with a rhetorical question.

 

[Raz]

She's a nutter. I'd just ignore her.

 

[Szayel Aporro]

No. She's not hot.
You have to trust me about it. Like, no joke.
And yeah, she's a bitch.

And I know.
I mean it when I say that my real friends are back where I used to live. Thank god I still keep in touch with them.
I kind of, stay with these kids because they are nice. Just... they're stereotypical. Those types of people get on my nerves. And they try to be nice.
But they're just not like the people I'm used to.
I want to be their friends, I just find it hard to be any closer than this.

 

[Reflection]

You said you have a big high school, right?

Then it shouldn't be too hard to find new ones...

 

[Crimson Crashing]

Holy shit, You deserve your own tv show with that one my friend.